I thought I understood the neutral flame, but now I'm not so sure. I went to remove a brace I had tacked in and to my surprise it came out with a snap, like a dry twig breaking. I couldn't touch it with a file. I went back to reading about brittle welds, and you have a carbon flame that is very easy to get.. I think I have it right now, my welds are not as pretty, but I can't tear apart my sample welds, and the biggest surprise to me was I could now file my welds, they didn't ruin my file.
It has probably been gone over a hundred times, but maybe some of you a lot more knowledgeable about gas welding and what the flames should look like can explain again for guys like me that aren't to sure.